Thursday, June 7, 2012
Let's Be Friends
Well, that's mostly been true. This year I sent her a birthday card even though I hadn't heard from her in over a year. I sent it because, well, I wanted to, and because I had a current address for her. I didn't attach any strings but told her how much I loved her.
Another thing I've done this year is stalk her on facebook. I realized by pure accident that her privacy settings were not engaged and I could freely look at any and all of her information. After a few months she changed them, so I'm not able to do it anymore.
I don't want to rule her life. I don't even need a small part of it. But I am curious. Curious about if she's healthy, happy, those types of things. Curious if she's still in school, still pursuing her dreams.
So I was wonderfully excited when I received a friend request from her a few weeks back. I confirmed it right away and again perused her pictures and posts to get a feel for where she is at. We still don't talk or communicate in any way, but somehow having a window into her world is enough.