Thursday, February 21, 2013
Searching using Social Media
I wonder if Crystal (the daughter she is searching for) has seen this yet? or if she has and doesn't know it's her? or maybe she has and is mortified because she likes things just the way they are.
It's hard for me to put myself in those shoes. I've always known who I am and where I came from. I've always known I belonged to the family who surrounded me. Even in my 'black sheep' years, I had no doubt that my parents were my parents, and my extended family was just that.
I have a friend who, years after her father died, learned that she had a brother from a previous relationship. Her mother didn't even know. And now her mother and sister are slow to recognize this new brother as a part of their family.
How sad! Instead of harboring resentment towards her deceased husband, I wish she were able to embrace this new facet of her husband's past!
Anyway, I'm rambling. Somehow, all these thoughts are related.
Have a great day!