Saturday, December 20, 2014
It's that time of year again. Time to trim the trees, eat some good food, see your family, and exchange presents. As the time to arrange my Christmas visit with my son approaches, I ask myself the awkward question, what does my son want for Christmas? I say awkward because, well, shouldn't I know what my son wants for Christmas? I have lucked out a bit with J. Trucks and Legos. He cannot get enough. Granted, I think this is true of most boys. I felt bad at one point that I'd gotten him one of something that he already had. But his parents and other parents who were there assured me, "There can never be enough Legos, doesn't matter if they're the same thing."
This year, I'm going to try to find a Lego set, maybe even something musical for him since he seems to be interested in music. He's four years old, so it will have to be something that is durable. A drum might drive his parents crazy. But I'll see what else I can find.
This year I also hope to give his parents Christmas presents. Nothing really large or fancy. Just something to show my appreciation not only for the immaculate care of my son and the fact that they continue to prove that I was right in choosing them as my son's parents, but also for their continued openness and willingness to include me and my parents in my son's life. It's a gift that I cannot even begin to pay them back for. I am grateful every single day for the care and love they lavish on J. And I know this Christmas, while it has been a rough one for their family, will be a happy one. They are family. And family always comes together in the rough times and does their best to make the best of it.
I hope that all of you have a wonderful holiday season, whichever way you choose to celebrate it. I hope for peace and harmony this December as the year comes to a close. And I hope you all get to spend time with those you love and who love you.