Saturday, April 11, 2015
Gifts from my Son
So, last weekend I had a visit with my son. And something happened at the very beginning that I have to share.
They arrived and I walked through the back door to the back gate that we keep shut so my parents can let the dog out to play in the yard without worrying that she'll get out. I opened the gate and J walked up to me holding a washed out honey jar with the two double daffodils you see in the picture here. I reacted much the way my mother would upon seeing a child with flowers,
"Oh wow! Those are really pretty flowers you have there!" He looked up at me very proudly, held up the jar and said,
"Yeah, and they're for you!" Yep, that was when my heart that totally leaped out of my chest. I've given my son presents. His parents have given me a couple things over the years. But J has never given me anything until now.
"For me! Oh, thank you J!" I think I was grinning from ear to ear. Not even joking about that. I have been given flowers very few times in my life. And those times were roses and carnations. These were flowers I had never seen before and had never been given before. And out of all the times I have been given flowers, I count these as the most precious of all.
I have them at home now. And much like my mother did when she was young, I am pressing the flowers so that I can seal them up in packing tape and make them into bookmarks. It's a mildly long process that takes some patience. But so far they look good.
As he gets older, this may happen again. I'm wondering what other good things he might give me over the years. But this was the first time and I know I will never forget it.
I hope all of you who may be having visits soon that they go as well as mine did. Has anyone else gotten an unexpected present from your child at a visit? I'd love to hear your stories.