Adoption is like the weather. It's a constantly changing
adventure, and you can always count on it to not be stagnant. Perhaps that's
the best and worst thing about it. For some of us, we pray for a change. We beg
for things to be different, or better in some way. For others, we're terrified
for things to be different because we're so comfortable with how things are now.
For me, I think it’s both. I have wished for things to be
better for as long as my son has been alive, but now I guess I’ve just become
so used to the way things are that I’m scared of what a change would mean. I know
I want more, I’ll always want more. But right now I don’t think that’s
possible. And I’m learning to accept that that’s okay, because nothing is
stagnant about this crazy life we live in.
If there’s one guarantee in life, well, I guess it’s that
there are no guarantees. Always hang in there and never give up. Don’t give up
on your children, don’t give up on your family and friends, and don’t give up
on hope. But most importantly, don’t give up on yourself. Things can always get
better, just like the weather will always change. It might rain for a week, but
the sun always comes out again. The stars are always behind the clouds, even if
we can’t see them. I really believe that’s the best thing about life. We can
always count on things to get better, and if we hold onto hope long enough,
they will.
I’m so grateful for every single picture or small update I
get. Those little things give me my motivation to keep going. I may not be able
to visit him yet, but one day I will. Even if it takes me 16 more years, I know
that reunion will come. That is what I wake up each day and fight for.
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