tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post1499711750075291337..comments2023-09-04T01:39:11.141-07:00Comments on BirthMom Buds Blog: "Who is That?" BirthMom Budshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16631346337722891976noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post-73743588452060581602014-12-04T18:40:30.619-08:002014-12-04T18:40:30.619-08:00I think "Oh, I could never do that!" and...I think "Oh, I could never do that!" and "She's so pretty! How could you not want her?" were some of the more difficult comments I had to deal with. In the early days, they were crushing, emotionally. Almost 15 years and some perspective later, I think most people who haven't been a part of it just don't know what to say...and since social graces seem to be long gone in our society, people just let those comments and questions fly. I just try now to give the grace I'd want to be given if I were in their shoes. (It is admittedly harder some days than others.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com