tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post1190515920290281434..comments2023-09-04T01:39:11.141-07:00Comments on BirthMom Buds Blog: Judge and Jury??BirthMom Budshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16631346337722891976noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post-81775843367600358532011-08-13T13:46:36.140-07:002011-08-13T13:46:36.140-07:00Monika... thank you for tackling such a hard subje...Monika... thank you for tackling such a hard subject! You are so right that we need to be united in our grief and not divided by it!Terri Gakehttp://terrigake.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post-18899972963208538022011-08-12T18:40:11.675-07:002011-08-12T18:40:11.675-07:00So sad :( I have also felt "judgement" a...So sad :( I have also felt "judgement" among other birthmoms. Maybe not directed at me in specific, but I think when you get any set of people you will find differences of opinion. You're always going to have, for example, Right Wing Republicans in one corner, and Liberals in another. But we are all human, at the base of it all, and as birthmoms we all share a sad but true fact that we are living without our children and we can at least empathize and understand each others' struggles viewed from that lens. I don't agree with everyone's opinions either, but I agree with everyone having the right to have a different one than mine. We are better than that ladies!A Life Being Livedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11702473000464603292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18367023828565958.post-65330878993355266092011-08-12T10:57:10.626-07:002011-08-12T10:57:10.626-07:00Monika thank you for this posting, I have so much ...Monika thank you for this posting, I have so much more going on inside my head but all that I feel to say is that it was a powerful reminder that we are all in the same boat. Saying "you don't even know" or "you just don't understand" doesn't help anyone - you said it perfectly - "We don’t need to deal with judgment from someone who at their core is dealing with the exact same thing we are." Let us all not only read this and say "that was needed", rather let's implement it into our lives and our global community of birth-mothers united by love.khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02742652359382679174noreply@blogger.com